Showing up your true authentic self.
Knowing
Your Values and Being Authentic: The Key to Living a Fulfilled Life
Do you
know who you are and what you stand for? This can have a positive impact on
your well being.
Values are
the principles, beliefs, and standards that guide our choices and actions. They
are the foundation of who we are, and they influence our relationships, career,
and overall sense of well-being. However, many of us struggle with knowing our
values and living authentically, as we may have been taught to prioritize external
expectations and societal norms over our own needs and desires.
I quite
often say “you do you”, I suppose this is being authentic in similar terms. It so
important to feel every day that you are being yourself and that you are able
to be yourself with those around you. In order to be ourselves it is important
to know who we are not who we think we should be or the person others are
comfortable with us being.
So, how can
we begin to understand our values and live in alignment with them? Here are
some steps to help you get started:
Reflect
on past experiences:
Think about the experiences and events in your life that have brought you the
most joy, fulfillment, and satisfaction. What values were you expressing in
those moments? Use these experiences to understand your core values and learn
from them.
Write
down a list of values: Make a list of the values that are most important to you, and prioritize
them in order of significance. Some common values include honesty, kindness,
loyalty, family, creativity, and excellence.
Try them
out: Once you have a
list of your values, put them to the test by applying them to real-life
situations. Ask yourself how your values guide your choices and behavior in
different scenarios.
Take time to meditate, journal, or
simply sit in quiet contemplation. Ask yourself questions like “Who am I?” and
“What do I stand for?” This can help you gain a deeper understanding of your
values and get in touch with your inner self.
By
understanding and living in alignment with our values, we can experience a
greater sense of fulfillment, self-awareness, and authenticity. We can also
build stronger relationships, as we are able to communicate our needs and
boundaries clearly and assertively.
Remember, living authentically means being true to yourself and living in accordance with your values, even when it’s not easy or convenient.
It requires courage and
self-awareness, but the rewards are well worth the effort. So, take the time to
know your values, and embrace the journey towards living an authentic life.
Emma Weaver
www.mentalwealthinternational.com
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